Comments on: Heart Breaking

By: Hap

Hap — Wed, 25 Jan 2006 05:22:32 +0000

Just make sure each of you willingly believes you are getting the best of the deal. Not because you take more; not because you fail to give all; but because the other so happily gives so abundantly and well.
Works for us.

By: Roxie

Roxie — Tue, 24 Jan 2006 14:33:20 +0000

That’s such a painful bit of wisdom.

By: sandra

sandra — Mon, 23 Jan 2006 04:25:29 +0000

That breaks my heart.

By: nina

nina — Mon, 23 Jan 2006 00:32:04 +0000

As if it all just stayed constant.
Sigh…
Whatever you do, just keep changing in the same way in the same direction.
As if you had control over it all.
Sigh…

By: shari

shari — Sun, 22 Jan 2006 07:13:33 +0000

Oh Jenny. Hugs to you, and to her. My stomach hurts just thinking about it, and I can’t stop thinking about it. I bet you can’t either. And worse? I bet she can’t, either. Gaaah. I’m bringing scotch. I’ll be there tomorrow.

By: jenny

jenny — Sun, 22 Jan 2006 07:10:24 +0000

No, there’s no part two to this story. And I agree, having been on both sides of imbalance before, neither is very fun.

By: Kevin

Kevin — Sun, 22 Jan 2006 05:35:21 +0000

I don’t see much good coming from this build up.

By: shari

shari — Sun, 22 Jan 2006 04:45:32 +0000

Because if it’s the other way around, you’re at a real disadvantage. Ugh, that’s a gut punch! So sorry for her… Please give her my best.
Still, for the record? My advice would be to make sure it’s an even trade. Even if an imbalance is in your favor, ultimately balance is more satisfying.

By: romy

romy — Sun, 22 Jan 2006 01:05:34 +0000

la pauvre.
yeah … ouch.

By: Fiorello La Guardia

Fiorello La Guardia — Sat, 21 Jan 2006 22:09:27 +0000

Arggggggh…
This is just ducky…I won’t be able to get to a computer for the next week or so, and you leave me with a cliff-hanger like THIS!
Again…Arggggggggh!